30 Thought-Provoking Questions for Couples to Reconnect (+ Free PDF Play Cards)

When was the last time you had a deep conversation with your significant other? Maybe you want to get closer to them, but struggle with finding the right words or questions to ask. No relationship is linear, and sometimes we need to ask difficult questions in order to get to the next step. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable with your partner doesn’t always come easy, which is why it’s so important to build and nurture a safe space where you can seclude in and reflect on your experiences in this union. 

Christmas is a time that brings people together, which is why in the spirit of the Holiday season, our team decided to help you feel just a little closer to your loved one. We created 30 beautiful free-to-print play cards with thought-provoking questions for couples to reconnect and fall in love all over again! 

30 Thought-Provoking Questions for Couples to Reconnect

Have you decided to surprise your partner with a romantic dinner? A picnic? Or maybe a road trip? That’s wonderful! We all need these gestures of love every now and then in order to feel seen and valued. And why not make the date even better by playing a game that’s designed specifically to help deepen your connection with your partner? The rules are very simple – there are 30 cards with carefully selected questions that will tap into your deepest feelings. Take turns to draw a card from the deck, and take as much time as you need to answer each question. For your convenience, we’ve made a free PFD file with all the play cards for you to download and access at all times. You can also browse through them below and save them individually. Enjoy and stay connected!

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Do you struggle to be vulnerable with me?

What about me intrigues you the most?

Is there something that scares you about our shared future?

What’s your least favorite thing about me?

What’s your favorite thing about our first date?

What is something that we have achieved as a couple that you feel extremely proud of?

Do you think that our relationship has healed any of your wounds from the past? Explain.

Name 3 things you have in common with your partner.

Have I ever embarrassed you and if yes, how?

How do you see me as a partner?

Do you find it easy to speak my love language?

If you had a magic wand, what’s something from our past that you would like to undo?

If you could do something spontaneous with me right now, what would it be?

What is 1 thing about me that inspires you to be a better person?

What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear my name?

Do you like my family? Be honest.

Is there a topic that you find difficult to discuss with me? Why?

How would you describe me to a stranger?

If we met in High School, do you think that we would hit it off?

Is there something you’ve always wanted to tell me, but didn’t know how? Do it now.

What’s something you admire about our relationship and why?

In what aspect do you think we complement each other the most?

What’s your favorite memory from our time together?

How would you like me to support you when you’re going through a difficult moment?

What’s the specific moment when you fell in love with me?

Do your best impression of me.

Play a song you would like us to dance to right now.

Who was your childhood crush, and do you think I look like them?

What would you like me to say to you more often?

Is there anything I can do right now to make you smile?

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